Chillin’ with Adam ✌️👽
When Adam transitioned eight years ago, one of the first things on his agenda was to prove to me that he is still here. As long as Adam’s body was still on life support, he was literally still present in the third dimension; but his soul no longer dwelt in the body I’d carried within my own.
Close to midnight of the first day Adam was on life support, the nurses advised me to go home and get some rest.
“There is nothing more you can do for him here.”
At first, the numbers monitoring Adam’s body temperature, heart rate, and respiration appeared to be meaningless, fluctuating randomly. That was before I began using them as a means to communicate with Adam.
I looked at Adam’s monitor. His heart rate was 180 beats per minute, which is normal for an infant in utero.
“I’ll go home when your heart rate is 111,” I said to Adam.
The numbers began to fall…. 180…. 174…. 162…. 151…. 122…. 111.
Fast forward eight years to January 2019. I’m working on our memoir, Adam’s Gift, which began with Adam’s accident in January 2011 and concludes with a surprise ending exactly eight years later.
For eight long years, I’ve been following Adam down a rabbit hole full of twists and turns, collecting pieces of a puzzle I thought might never come together.
Finally, with a single phone call, it all makes sense.
I can’t wait to share “The Big Reveal,” but you’re going to have to wait for the book.
In the meantime, I’ve been working on channeling Adam myself since we published our last Chillin’ with Adam video almost a year ago. I have no idea where this is heading. For now, Adam just wants to have fun with it.
Adam and I use a number of different methods to communicate. Automatic typing seems to be my strength. Adam’s instructions are simple. “Go to your laptop, assume I’m talking, and listen.
Here is my first training session with Adam. Introducing Adam & Cin: 👽👩
👩 I opened my laptop and created a special place to record the process of connecting with Adam. Adam says it’s imperative that I’m having fun.
👽 Fun is a prerequisite for this course. Lol! It’s a process, Mom. Baby steps.
👩 The first thing Adam did was enlarge the emojis and the size of the print. When I asked him why, he said…..
👽 So your eyes won’t get tired. You’re no spring chicken, Mom.
👩 Thanks! I like it better this way. Adam showed me to copy and paste both emojis at once. Each time I enter a line of dialogue, I’m to paste both emojis and delete the one I don’t want. You’re such an efficiency expert! Can I tell them the story about what Mrs. Malde said about you in kindergarten?
👽 You can tell them about the math sheet if you tell them about the balloon fart too.
👩 When Adam was given a math worksheet with ten addition problems and ten subtraction problems, he was the first to hand in his paper. He’d added all 20 math problems. Mrs. Malde advised him to look at the signs.
“Go back to your seat and correct your paper.”
Adam was back in 30 seconds. He’d crossed all the minus signs.
“Adam is such a divergent thinker,” declared Mrs. Malde.
👽 It was the path of least resistance!
👩 I’d been concerned about Adam spending too much time playing by himself. He was always trying to build a better mousetrap while other kids just wanted to play. I was really excited the day Adam came home from kindergarten and announced, “I played with a friend today.”
👽 Is this about the Play-doh penis?
👩 Spoiler alert! Yes. I asked Adam what they played. He said, “We played with Play-doh. It was pink.” I asked Adam what they made.
👽 We made a penis!!! What else are a couple of boys going to make with pink Play-doh?
👩 When I picked Adam up from school the next day, I attempted to apologize for the Play-doh penis. “Oh, please,” said Mrs. Malde, “Do you know how many Play-doh penises I’ve seen in 25 years of teaching kindergarten?”
While we were talking, Adam was blowing up a balloon. Just when I thought I’d redeemed my parenting skills, Adam sat on it.
“Pfffffffft!!!” went the balloon, turning more than a few heads.
“He’s a genius!” declared Mrs. Malde.
👽See how easy it is when we’e just having fun?
👩 When are you going to share more Higher Consciousness stuff?
👽Baby steps, Mom. Baby steps. Just keep having fun.
👩 The fun is in creating with you.
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