Chillin’ with Adam with Princess Diana
When I asked Adam how it feels to be in the presence of Princess Diana, he said, “If I could marry her, I would. Just kidding. I am honored and I am privileged that she wanted to share this moment with us because she’s such an inspiration. She truly was an angel amongst humans. She went through a lot of personal pain and a lot of growth if we want to look at it that way. She really learned a lot in this journey, but she moved people. How many people can say they turned a whole country around by just being her? She was just herself. It’s her energy. She just had to get out of a car and smile. Her energy was so compassionate that people fell in love with her right there and then. Everybody wanted to marry her. Everybody wanted to be her and that’s because she had this soothing, loving, comforting energy. She had no judgment whatsoever. All she wanted to do was love and really help people. That’s really what her mission was on Earth.
She helped her boys stay true to who they are. She gave them a normal childhood in a lot of ways. She tried to keep things as normal as possible. Of course, it wasn’t easy to do, but she tried her best so they could still experience what life is all about. Because when you’re born and you’re supposed to become a king one day, your privileges are being stripped and you’re every day being prepared to become something or someone that’s really not you, even as a job, but that’s not really who you are. She made sure that her boys knew who they were and what their qualities were and to stay true to themselves. That’s going to help even more people in the future, so her impact on this world is enormous, and so I feel blessed and I feel privileged to have her stand next to me today.
The very first thing on Diana’s mind was her boys.
“If I may, I would like to take this opportunity to give a shout out to my boys. First of all, I just want to congratulate Harry. Good choice. I’m glad that he followed his heart and that he’s allowing his emotions to do the talking and take the action, and not allowing other people’s criticism to make the decisions for him, so I’m very happy and I’m so proud of him that he followed his heart in this journey. Thank you for following my advice that I gave you a long time ago and I love you very, very much, Harry. To Rachel (who is commonly known as Meghan), I just want to thank you for choosing and taking care of my boy. Welcome to the family. I want you two to know that I’ll be present at every important occasion and I’m watching over all of you every minute of every day.
To my beautiful, William, my little wombat. That’s his nickname. Don’t tell anybody. He gets embarrassed by it. I just want you to know and I want Kate to know that I love you both very, very much. Just a little bit of advice, know that this is a teamwork between you two and the only thing that’s important in this journey is how you approach it together and how you communicate with one another. If you can really increase communication and understand that all that matters is your relationship, despite the difficulties that will come ahead, as long as you stick together, as long as you appreciate, respect and are completely honest with one another, everything will work out really great. Just know, when it comes to the children, little George is going to be a handful in a few years. Just so you know, but I will be there to help you with him. In regards to Charlotte, let’s just say that Charlotte and I share the same soul; that we are from the same Higher Self, so in a way, Charlotte is my reincarnation. She’s my little princess and I love her very, very much. You guys will be great as long as you don’t allow others to make the decisions for you. Do what’s in your heart. Do what feels right and you will always be right on track. Just know that I am with you as well every day talking to you, guiding you, and loving you.”
After giving Princess Diana the floor to share whatever she’d like, she admitted that she isn’t a big fan of talking in public or being in the spotlight. She shared that from her new perspective she understands that all of it had function and meaning. A lot of people have viewed her life as tragic and sad. From her human experience, it did not go the way she wanted it to go, but from her spiritual perspective, she can see that it was all necessary in order to make certain changes in the royal house and how kings and queens and princes and princesses will be ruling in the future.
“In a way, I changed or modernized royalty in the kingdom. I also brought the country back together. I think not everybody would see it that way, but it was a time when people were not doing so well in Britain. There was a lot of poverty. There were a lot of people out of jobs. So, there was a lot of distress amongst the people of Britain. People were starting to turn against everybody who had it easy or who had power. People were starting to become very critical of the royal family. They were starting to see them as, you know, they’re just rich and they don’t do anything for us, criticizing them constantly.
When I came into the picture, they saw themselves. They saw a regular girl who, yes, I was privileged. Where I came from I was privileged. I didn’t experience it as privileged because money sure as hell does not make you happy. But they saw me as an equal. I was a very shy, very young lady and in a way, I brought happiness back. They were excited. A little bit too excited. It became very hard for me to live life. I gave people something beautiful to look forward to.
People sometimes need something positive in their journey when they’re going through a rough time. In Britain, we hold the royal family very dear. My new face kind of brought joy back into the country and I’m not saying I fixed the country, I gave them something else to focus on. I changed their perspective from always focusing on the negative things that were happening at the moment and turned it into a very positive focus. So, it was a distraction that would help people to change their vibration from a negative to a positive. That’s how I’d like to see it.
I see life now as a success. I brought two beautiful boys into this world who are to make changes. Very positive, compassionate changes in the future. They’re going to change the way that countries are ruled and they’re going to show what it is to take care of a people. To take care of each other. They’re a new generation in the making and I like to see that I was a contributor to that. So, we’re heading in a more compassionate direction when it comes to the human race and they’re going to be a starting point of that, so I’m very, very proud of them that they stayed true to who they are just the way that I taught them. It doesn’t matter who they marry or how everything works out. As long as they do everything according to their heart, it’s always going to work out the way it’s supposed to be.
Diana shared very intimate details of her childhood witnessing her mother’s physical abuse and why she married Charles, knowing that he had a thing for Camilla. When William was born, Diana finally had someone of her own to love, who would love her back. When Diana was told that nannies would raise William, she had a different idea.
I said, “No. No, this is my baby and I’m going to raise him,” So I broke that tradition, because in the royal family, nobody gets raised by their family. You get raised by a nanny. That’s how it goes. That’s the tradition. That’s how it’s supposed to be. So, in a way, Charles never had the love either. He never did, so he didn’t know what love was.
I still called, even after my marriage, my childhood, because I didn’t grow up, I think. Until so many years later when I started to realize that my cries for help, bulimia, the suicide attempts. Yes, I did try to commit suicide. I can hear people thinking, “Suicide?” I did try to commit suicide at least five times, just to get his attention. I remember I was pregnant, and he was taking off again and I wanted his attention so badly, I threw myself down a flight of stairs while I was pregnant. He didn’t even take a second look. He just left me there, by the bottom of the stairs. He just looked at me and said, “Pathetic,” and he left.
When his mom came in, she was hysterical, of course. But that’s the mental abuse that I had to go through. I didn’t have physical abuse, I had mental abuse and it was really hard to kind of turn that around, but there comes a time when you’re in the deepest, darkest black hole you can imagine, and you have these two beautiful children who are looking up to you. I was reminded of my mother. She went through physical abuse and the mental abuse and I was going through a similar thing, but she ran and I remember how that made us feel and I would not do that to my children. That’s when the point came when I said, “Enough is enough.” I am not going to turn into my mother and I’m going to turn this around.
So, I did what I needed to do to keep my sanity, to become healthy again. I was sick for years. And I turned things around and I eventually did something that had never been done in the history of man. That was, I asked for a divorce in the royal family. That was not an easy choice. I believed that the country would turn against me. But they didn’t. They saw my pain and they supported me and I was very surprised by that.
When the book came out while we were still married, which I had recorded in secret, on tapes with a friend of mine and then was sent to the writer, and my book came out with what had been going on with me, I got so much support from women who went through similar things. I understood at that moment that what I was going to do, requesting a divorce, you risk the chance of being publically humiliated. I didn’t just do it for me. I did it for all those women out there who were going through the same thing to give them the courage to stand up for themselves and to say, enough is enough. I deserve love. I deserve someone who cares about me and respects me and who is willing and who would love nothing more than to share this lifetime with me. To make those memories not out of obligation. Not out of duty, but just because you love me. That’s what I was looking for. I eventually started doing things on my own.”
When asked whether she found the love she was seeking, Diana said, “Not in a romantic relationship. I found it in my boys. They were my happiness. They were my unconditional love. Love can come in many forms, in many shapes, and my children were the love of my life. I did have other relationships after Charles; however, they were more for me to figure out who I was. To discover who I was, because if you’ve never been in a relationship and then you get married to someone who doesn’t really want to be in a relationship with you, you still don’t have any idea what a relationship is supposed to be like. I needed to experience relationships where the partner really cared about having fun with me and doing things together and sharing memories and creating experiences together. So, I did that. Not with many, I was not crazy. I was very careful because I did not want to be in an abusive relationship again. So, there were only two.
Who knew where that relationship might have gone. I wasn’t holding onto expectations anymore as I did before. Before I married Charles, I had an idea in my head of how it was all going to go. So, I learned to let that go. I learned to really live one day at a time and to really enjoy the time I had, I’m not going to say, without the paparazzi, because they were always there. They were mean. They were vicious. There were sharks. Privacy was so hard to come by. I tried to make the best of every day after that, so I started to really focus on helping everyone out there who needed help, who needed some love.”
Diana cared very much about people who had been diagnosed with AIDS. She said doctors didn’t want to treat them because they were worried they were going to get it until she came along, hugging AIDS patients and shaking their hands. She said she wanted to show people, “’They’re okay. See? You can touch them. You can hug them. You can give them a handshake. You’re not going to get it.’ I really wanted to become a spokesperson for the rejected. I wanted to become a spokesperson for the people who didn’t receive the love and respect that they deserved.
I would encourage everyone to help one person a day. Whether it is giving someone a meal who is homeless. Whether it is giving someone a blanket or a hug or just talking to a person who needs a conversation. Try and help one person a day and we can change the world together. If everyone would do that, the smallest gift can change people’s hearts. The smallest token of affection can bring a smile to a person’s face and completely lighten up his day, So, don’t ignore the people out there who needs us, who need our help, who feel left out, who feel unloved. Embrace them as the beings of light that they really are. See them for their true nature.
If we could all help each other, we can turn things around very quickly. That is my deepest message to everyone and I hope I made an impact on people with everything that I did with the Diana funds that you can still donate to. Help each other. Love each other. Respect each other. No matter how different an individual is from you, we all deserve love and we all deserve compassion. I think just opening your heart to a stranger can not only change their life but will also change your life.”
Adam added, “If we follow Diana’s advice and we help one person a day, whether it’s something simple like saying good morning, hello, and how are you, with a big smile, you will raise their frequency up. You will raise your frequency because you will instantly feel gratification and love in your heart and you’ll go, “Wow! That was actually easier than I thought.” So many people pass by each other every day and they don’t even look up. They don’t say hello. We just pass by each other like spirits, like ghosts. They’re just passing by. They’re not even making a connection. Just making a connection to a person will instantly raise your vibration and when your vibrational frequency rises, you attract higher frequencies. More happiness, more abundance, more joy into your life.
So, say hello to everyone you meet. Just try it as an experiment. See how many people say hello back. Say hello to every stranger you meet and see how their facial expressions change from being neutral, away in their mind, and your hello will bring them back to the now. You will see that smile arise. In that moment, you made a change. You made a difference in his day or her day. It’s so simple, people, but it has a huge impact. So try it out. Everybody says hello and good morning and how are you.”
Emma said, “I think he wants to hug her, but they’re just kind of standing next to each other, very properly.
“Princess Diana, may I ask you a favor?”
I wanted so badly to hug my son myself that I couldn’t get the words out.
“Will you please give my boy a hug for me?”
“For you, I will,” and with that, Princess Diana bent over and gave Adam a hug.
Emma said, “It’s weird, but she has to kind of bend over.” Diana is 5’10” and Adam is 5’5”.
When asked what she thinks of Adam, Princess Diana said, “Well, let’s just say that the work he is doing at this moment is really an inspiration to all of us over here, because he’s bringing awareness, but he’s bringing fun-ness to the spiritual world. He’s bringing simplicity and joy. It’s all about understanding that nothing really changes dramatically, we just start vibrating at a different frequency. With fun, with joy, with happiness, we get there faster. We get there easier.
So many people want to connect with us. They talk to us and pray to us. There’s still the illusion of separation and if you just approach everything with a smile and a giggle and just have fun with it. He brings the spiritual world closer to people on Earth and he makes it accessible. He makes it okay to have fun with deceased VIPs. He allows us to show everyone out there that we go through the same things that other people go through. We are just like you. There is nothing different about us. The only thing that can be different is maybe our job, but we’re still human; or we were still human. We go through heartaches and pains and struggles just as much as any other person out there.
So, I think Adam combines the understanding that spirits are just as much emotional beings and just as accessible as your next-door neighbor, and I think that’s a great thing to do. I admire him. I’m inspired by him because he’s continuing to bring light and love and awareness to a world who desperately needs it at this time.
Never in my wildest dreams did I imagine that my son would be in the presence of Princess Diana, let alone, that it would be with Adam on the other side, or that I would have the opportunity to have a conversation with the two of them. Together. Amazing. Just amazing.
Please enjoy our visit with one of the sweetest and most compassionate souls to grace the Earth with her presence, Lady Diana Spencer, Princess of Wales.